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‘I
hate you,’ daughter
tells
mom-killing dad
Lee
Uecker sentenced
to 29 years
in prison
for murdering his wife
By Bill Johnson
& Fred Mramor of the Desert Journal
After
District Judge Thomas Fitch sentenced wife-killer Lee W. Uecker to
29 years in prison at a hearing last Friday in Socorro, his
12-year-old daughter told him she hated him and never wanted to see
him again.
Uecker,
44, of Truth or Consequences, had just pled guilty to the second
degree murder of his estranged wife, Jeanine “Jenny” M. Uecker,
41, of 818 Pershing St., on Jan. 29 this year.
He
allegedly struck her head and body repeatedly with a claw hammer in
his backyard at 1007 N. Caballo Road, then put her body in the trunk
of her car.
The
1995 Buick soon became an incendiary tomb after he poured gasoline
onto it and set it ablaze near the Elephant Butte dirt dam just a
couple miles away, leaving her remains unrecognizable to the degree
she had to be identified with her dental records.
Speaking
on Uecker’s behalf at the plea and disposition hearing July 6,
Uecker’s attorney Jesse Cosby told the court that Uecker killed
his wife after his wife (purportedly) left him for a woman.
“He
killed her because he didn’t want her homosexuality to be passed
onto their daughter,” Cosby said, then explaining he was speaking
for his client because of his eighth grade education.
After
the hearing, according to a witness, Uecker’s daughter,
12-year-old Sarah, spoke directly in Uecker’s face, “I hope
you’re happy. You have taken the one thing that meant the most to
me. I hate you. I will always hate you and I will never love you
again.”
Uecker
just stood there crying and said, “I understand,” the witness
said.
According
to a source close to the family, who also spoke only on conditions
of anonymity, Jenny Uecker left her husband after he allegedly
struck their daughter with his fist. The source said that up to that
point in time Lee Uecker was always verbally abusive towards his
family and never had an encouraging word for his daughter, that he
always put her down and made abusive remarks towards her.
She
said the lesbian references that Uecker made toward Jenny were
frequent and usually came when he was on a drinking binge and she
would spend time with her female friends, thus making all of them…
hocus pocus - …lesbians.
“Because
we spent time together we were said to be lesbians,” she said.
“The
Uecker family has a huge reputation with drugs and alcohol and they
have been known for domestic abuse,” the confidential source said,
adding that both Lee Uecker and his brothers alike were subjected to
abuse while they were children.
“When
Lee was about eight years old, his father came home very drunk. They
lived on the river in T or C, he had Lee stand on the dock and he at
the top of the hill with a pistol would shoot things off the top of
Lee’s head. If Lee wouldn’t do it, he would then get beaten. I
have heard they would literally get kicked in the buttocks with
pointed cowboy boots and even worse things,” she said.
She
said Lee Uecker constantly threatened and intimidated his spouse,
causing her to live in constant fear. The friend said she managed to
talk Jenny into leaving Lee.
“She
finally got up this courage and started living a better life for
herself and her daughter -- until he killed her,” she said.
“This
situation has nothing to do with being straight or gay or anything
but a sheer angry man – angry at himself and life in general,”
she said.
Homophobia,
the fear of homosexuals or homosexuality, according to Jenny’s
friend, is not an excuse for murder in this case.
She
said Lee Uecker never went to functions involving Sarah but that
Jenny spent as much of her time with her daughter as possible and
always tried to build up Sarah’s self-esteem to undo the emotional
harm and mental damage her father tried to inflict on her.
Others
who knew Jenny also knew she had her daughter’s best interest at
heart. Perhaps she was a little over-protective over Sarah, but
that’s to be understood, especially in cases of chronic domestic
violence, abuse or neglect.
“I
felt that pleading the case as we did was beneficial to the family,
sparing their 12-year-old daughter from testifying and with no
appeals possible (for Lee Uecker). The family can go on to repairing
their lives,” Deputy District Attorney June Stein said.
Under
the plea and disposition agreement, Uecker pleaded guilty to second
degree murder with aggravation and first degree attempted
kidnapping. Judge Fitch respectively passed a prison sentence of 15
years for the murder charge, five years for the aggravated
circumstances and nine years for the attempted kidnapping, a second
degree felony - all three terms to be served consecutively.
None
of the sentence will be suspended or deferred, the agreement states.
Also, the charge of tampering with evidence is dismissed.
Uecker
possibly could become eligible for parole but only after serving a
full 22 years of his prison sentence. When released, he will be
subjected to paying restitution with the amount to be determined by
Adult Probation and Parole.
Until
then, he will have ample time to think about the horrible, dastardly
deed he did.
It
all began when Jenny, a former legal secretary and Minnesota native,
was summoned to her separated husband’s home to pick up what she
thought would be a present for Sarah.
Uecker,
however, used deceit to lure Jenny to his home on a late Monday
afternoon so he could commit the crime of kidnapping for the purpose
of murdering her, according to prosecutor Stein.
Elephant
Butte State Park employees Juan Maestas and Isaac Mercure were first
on the scene of the burning four-door car, not knowing someone’s
body was about to be cremated.
Near
the car that night they saw Uecker and when he walked around it and
emerged on the other side, he too was engulfed in flames. Uecker
would spend the next month or so at the University of New Mexico
Hospital recovering from his second and third degree burns, which
covered about 40 percent of his body including his head, neck,
entire back, arms and hands. A first responder said Uecker burnt his
hands from taking off his burning shirt.
Uecker
told the park personnel and other witnesses that no other occupants
were with him at the time, but he later stated that his wife was in
the car and she did not get out. A search of the vehicle and
surrounding area, however, did not reveal any additional passengers,
state police said.
But
after the T or C and Williamsburg fire departments extinguished the
car fire in an hour or two - the car reduced to its frame - firemen
popped the trunk open and inside it found a burnt human corpse.
An
investigation revealed that the vehicle had traveled off State Road
195 and apparently overturned coming to rest right side up off the
north side of the highway. The car laid down an embankment about 50
feet from the roadway. A gas can also laid near the burnt vehicle.
Jenny
Uecker was last heard from at 3:30 p.m. when she called the baby
sitter, Nevada Talkington, to inform her she was on her way to
Lee’s home to pick up a present for Sarah.
At
4 p.m., Lee’s sister Diane Asbell saw Jenny’s Buick parked at
Lee’s home on Caballo Road. Asbell told police her brother and
Mrs. Uecker were still married but had separated last September or
October.
Asbell
told police her brother had phoned his mother, Oriet Uecker, to tell
her that he loved her – which was out of character or normal
behavior for Lee.
It
was also learned that Uecker possibly was planning for his suicide
or even for a long prison term as he had signed his property over to
his mother.
The
face of Jenny Uecker, who had worked in shipping and receiving at
Furr’s supermarket in T or C until last October, now graces the
wall of her latest employer, Xochi’s Book Store & Gallery, on
Broadway. Her radiant smile in a painting by Bernardo tells the
people to end domestic violence.
But
her message apparently went unnoticed in a community where the
incidence of murder now exceeds the national average by nearly 20
fold.
Jenny
was the first of five homicide victims to die this year in Sierra
County as the result of domestic violence. The shocking deaths of
the other four (apparently quadruple homicide of wife and three
daughters ages 8, 10 and 12, and a suicide, all credited to the
husband and father) – the Snyder family of Palomas Creek near San
Miguel – occurred just last Sunday at their home.
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